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This is a popular intuitive choice game. Look at the five candles below, choose the one you’re most drawn to, and then discover its meaning.
Take a moment to look at these five candles and choose the one you feel most connected to right now.
Your Result:
The Person Who Brings Light: This person is your Rock. They are the stable, dependable, and grounding force in your life. You know, without a doubt, that if the world were falling apart, this is the person you could call at 3 a.m. and they would be there without hesitation. Their light isn’t flashy or loud; it’s the steady, warm glow of a hearth fire—constant, reliable, and deeply comforting. They bring light through their unwavering loyalty and practical support. They are the one who remembers what you need, shows up to help you move, and makes you feel safe and secure. Their presence alone is a calming light in the chaos of life.
How It Works (The Psychology Behind the Game):
This isn’t a scientific test, but a form of projection and intuitive choice. The candle you are drawn to can reflect your current emotional state, needs, and desires. Your subconscious mind connects the symbol (the candle) with qualities you are seeking or valuing most in your relationships at this moment.
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Did you choose a different candle? Here are the meanings for the others:
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Candle 2 (The Wild Orange): The person who brings light is your Inspirer. They are energetic, optimistic, and full of ideas. They push you to see new possibilities and bring fun, adventure, and creativity into your life.
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Candle 3 (The Soft Pink): The person who brings light is your Nurturer. They are deeply empathetic, kind, and compassionate. They bring light through their emotional support, their ability to listen without judgment, and their immense capacity for love and care.
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Candle 4 (The Deep Blue): The person who brings light is your Wisdom Keeper. This person is a guide, a mentor, or a deeply intuitive friend. They help you see situations with clarity and depth. Their light is the light of wisdom, truth, and profound understanding.
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Candle 5 (The Vibrant Red): The person who brings light is your Passion Igniter. This person motivates you, challenges you, and brings a powerful energy into your life. They remind you of your own strength, drive, and vitality. Their light is bold, empowering, and exciting.
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This exercise is designed to be a moment of self-reflection. The “person” it describes is often already in your life, and the result helps you recognize and appreciate their role.
